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Dear future husband,

Hi darling, welcome to my world. First of all, congratulations to you! You just became one of the luckiest man in the world. Pray that your luck lasts long, because you will sooner or later discover every ugly side of mine.

I wish that by now we have a house of our own. It doesn't have to be big as I don't have much free time to clean the entire house. A nice condo is enough to fit our tiny family, I guess. I hope the design is nice so that I could spend my boredom admiring the ceiling for the whole day. (p/s: I DON'T CARE I NEED A KING SIZE BED)

As you know, I am lazy to do house chores. I mean, I do, but don't expect me to sweep the floor everyday. Maybe we can buy a robot floor cleaner? That could save a lot of job! Nahh don't worry I'll use my own credit card. In addition, I'm not good at cooking but I don't want to buy any cooking robot because I love to cook. I will try my best to serve the best dishes for you every weekday, but please promise me you will accompany me to buy groceries. I hate grocery shopping, but I think going out with you would be really nice, even if we see each other's face everyday.

I hate it when people say marriage is the graveyard of love. We're married, but we're not locked up in a jail. So please, go and have fun with your friends. And don't limit my social activities too. Just bear in mind that do not cross the limit. You trust me and I you. You know what I mean. ;) 

WE NEED TO TRAVEL EVERY YEAR. I don't care if it's somewhere nearby, or going other country. I just need some fresh air. Maybe we can go for a picnic on the weekend yeah? Or chilling at a cafeteria? Having dinner with your/my family? Ice-skating sounds good to you? Oh yes, we can also go for hiking and watch the sunrise! Oh gosh, it's gonna be so much fun. I'm really looking forward to it!

Sometimes I am bad-tempered and impatient. I get emotional very easily. I hope you can tolerate with that. (tips: a hug can heal it all.) I dislike being alone (a fact that I just discovered lately). Please don't walk out on me no matter what happened, even if we're in a very mad argument. I can assure you that once you leave, you'll never get my heart back.

There's lots more to tell about me (or us) but I'll save it until I meet you.

Last but not least, let me spoil you.

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